She blocked me, is it my fault?


There’s this Girl I have been messaging Hi, Hi. Since 2011,
she nor fit reply.
Yesterday I wrote “35589223456241”
Three minutes later, she was like
I replied
“NOKIA touch IMEI serial nunmber”
she insulted & blocked me afterwards…

Abeg is it my fault?

Prayer: My silent letter to God

Dear Lord,
I know I am one of the most disappointing sons you’ve ever adopted.
I know I’ve failed you many more times than even the devil has planned.
That’s why I am shocked at why you still love me this much.
There is absolutely no reason for you to bless me,
No rationale to prosper me,
Except that you love me for nothing.

I reap where I never sowed
I receive outstanding results where I did not work hard enough
Even when I did nothing, something more than expected comes out of it

I wish I could at least live up to YOUR expectation, plans and purpose for my existence
I wish I could repay You for the past alone
Let alone the present, or future.
I am forever indebted to you dear Lord

Even if you do nothing more for me from now till I breathe my last breath
What you have done is more than enough to try and reciprocate
You are God
And I am yours

All I ask
is that I fulfil
Not my aspirations
But your purpose
Not my will
But Yours be done


A minute of silence for Africa’s legend: Nelson Mandela. His most inspiring quotes

The world will mourn Nelson Mandela for a long time, but he lives on in our hearts, especially us in Africa. He undoubtedly is the biggest influence in African history till date.

Here are a few of his nuggets of wisdom

On Education/Learning
Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.

No country can really develop unless its citizens are educated.

On Courage
I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.

The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear.

It always seems impossible until its done.

After climbing a great hill, one only finds that there are many more hills to climb.

Does anybody really think that they didn’t get what they had because they didn’t have the talent or the strength or the endurance or the commitment?

A good head and a good heart are always a formidable combination.

If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart.

There is no passion to be found playing small – in settling for a life that is less than the one you are capable of living.

Any man or institution that tries to rob me of my dignity will lose.

On Leadership
It is better to lead from behind and to put others in front, especially when you celebrate victory when nice things occur. You take the front line when there is danger. Then people will appreciate your leadership.

A good leader can engage in a debate frankly and thoroughly, knowing that at the end he and the other side must be closer, and thus emerge stronger. You don’t have that idea when you are arrogant, superficial, and uninformed.

I was not a messiah, but an ordinary man who had become a leader because of extraordinary circumstances.

On Freedom
For to be free is not merely to cast off one’s chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.

There is no easy walk to freedom anywhere, and many of us will have to pass through the valley of the shadow of death again and again before we reach the mountaintop of our desires.

Let freedom reign. The sun never set on so glorious a human achievement.

To deny people their human rights is to challenge their very humanity.

On Time
We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right.

On apartheid/racism
I detest racialism, because I regard it as a barbaric thing, whether it comes from a black man or a white man.

If the United States of America or Britain is having elections, they don’t ask for observers from Africa or from Asia. But when we have elections, they want observers.

I dream of an Africa which is in peace with itself.

For more quotes, visit brainy quotes

Are there people still alive from when Jesus was on earth?


Many have asked this question, especially after seeing the book of John 21:21-23

John 21:21-23

King James Version (KJV)

21 Peter seeing him saith to Jesus, Lord, and what shall this man do?

22 Jesus saith unto him, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee? follow thou me.

23 Then went this saying abroad among the brethren, that that disciple should not die: yet Jesus said not unto him, He shall not die; but, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee?

Looking also at the book of Mark 9:1

Mark 9:1

King James Version (KJV)

9 And he said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That there be some of them that stand here, which shall not taste of death, till they have seen the kingdom of God come with power.

Does this mean that there are some people are still alive from the time Jesus Christ was on earth? Does it mean that some people will not die until Jesus comes back again?


Taking these two verses, one at a time:

JOHN 21:23

King James Version (KJV)

23 Then went this saying abroad among the brethren, that that disciple should not die: yet Jesus said NOT unto him, He shall not die; but, If I will that he tarry till I come, what is that to thee?

The Bible here says, Jesus did not tell him that he shall not die, but from another translation,

John 21:22-23

The Message (MSG)

22-23 Jesus said, “If I want him to live until I come again, what’s that to you? You—follow me.” That is how the rumor got out among the brothers that this disciple wouldn’t die. But that is not what Jesus said. He simply said, “If I want him to live until I come again, what’s that to you?”

Then the second reference from the gospel of Mark is usually also misquoted as saying some will not die till the Kingdom of God comes (signifying the second coming of Jesus Christ). This is not so. The kingdom of God coming with power is also promised in Acts of the Apostles.

Acts 1:8

King James Version (KJV)

8 But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth.

The kingdom of God coming with power actually meant the manifestation of Pentecost. It was finally revealed in the next two chapters. Read it here (courtesy of Bible Gateway)

It is important that we fully understand the scripture, so that we are not misled. 

May God expand our knowledge of Him, as we continually search the scripture.


Is he really born again?

Sunday school in progress – discussion about being born again, the teacher asks “Who here is not born again?” A young man puts up his hands. I am shocked at his boldness to do this, then she says to us all, “Everyone please bow down your heads, close your eyes, and say this prayer with me:
Lord Jesus
I come to you
I acknowledge I am a sinner
I come to you with your sins
Forgive me
Accept me as your child
I repent of my sins
I will not go back to them again
I am now born again
In Jesus’ name I pray

After this prayer, she says to the young man “Sir, from now on, you are born again”

My question here is,


Innovate, or become extinct



Nokia humiliated Motorola 13-years ago and became the world’s biggest phone vendor.. 4-years ago, they ignored the iOS and continued intimacy with the decayed Symbian OS.. Just like BlackBerry, making a news OS to rival either iOS or Android was a bigger task than ending the war in Syria. Nokia and BlackBerry have been consumed! They are no where to be found in the top-10 smartphones. No innovation, No creativity…

This is so because they decided to stick with an old and discredited business philosophy while Samsung and the highly rated Apple took the risk that opened the new world order of smartphones.

The point is this; never let your comfort zone deceive you, mega companies have been deceived and got lost in their line of businesses. You are not special! No one is indispensable!

As an individual:

1. Continue to research and buy books. Improve your intellect. Expand your knowledge. Don’t stop learning. If you do, you start decaying.

2. Don’t stop providing solutions. Immediately you stop being a problem-solver, you become irrelevant, and nobody wants to associate with someone that’s got nothing to offer.

As a business:

1. Innovate. Invest in Research and Development. If you have a start-up that is great today, constantly improve it.

2. Think of new ideas. If you cannot think of new ideas, improve the existing ones.

3. Know what the market wants. They are your lifeline. If you cannot satisfy their ever growing needs, they will not feed you, and you will die a natural death.

Learn from Motorola.

Learn from Nokia.

Learn from Blackberry.


Employ my 70-30 approach. 70% of your income goes back to your business, 10% to God (yes God because the God-factor is most important in your life), 10% for savings and the other 10% to grow your mind with “good” books

Later on, you can begin to alter the percentage. If you have a business and you keep consuming all your revenue, sooner or later, you would become irrelevant!

Thanks to Nosa E. Nosa for inspiring this

Getting Started with BBM on Android and iPhone

Inside BlackBerry Help Blog


Do you own an Android or iPhone smartphone? If so, you can download BBM and connect with friends and family around the world for free! To help you get started, here are a few things you’ll want to know.

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The Fall of Man

Was the fall of Man the fault of Eve, or of Adam?

Looking back at the fall of man, the garden of Eden, we are made to believe, that the woman Eve was the cause of the problems of all mankind; that she is to blame for all our sins today.
We are made to believe that every evil in existence in the world today was because one woman could not hold her urge for a simple forbidden fruit.
But looking critically at this scenario, I believe Adam was also at fault for Eve’s fall.

I’ve asked these questions again and again, and it draws me to these conclusions, that Adam, in fact, should be the major cause for Eve’s fall, and invariably, the fall of mankind.
Where was Adam when the serpent was talking to Eve, trying to con her to do that one thing that would forever implicate all humanity?
Maybe he was too busy studying science, working on the next nomenclature for the newly discovered specie in the garden of Eden.
Or maybe he was too busy preparing the garden of Eden for their next meeting with God.
The woman was created to be a helper for the man, wasn’t she?
Why then were they separated when the tempter came around?
Where was Adam?

I strongly believe that if he was there with Eve, or if he took her along with him at all times, the coup d’etat plot of the Evil One would have been a total failure.
I strongly believe, that fall was already set in motion when the Devil successfully separated man and woman; the moment he successfully nullified the veracity of that statement “and the two shall become one flesh”

Maybe the garden was too big for them to always be physically together, but the real separation was not the physical gap between Adam and Eve, but the difference in thinking.
Adam was taught DIRECTLY BY GOD that tree of life was forbidden, but did he pass this message in its entirety to the bone of his bones?
Did he train his wife to think like him, act like him, reason like him?
After each fellowship with God in the cool of the day, did he sit his wife down and make sure that they are on the same page concerning the teaching of the Lord Most High?
Or was he too occupied with his duties of taking DOING GOD’S ASSIGNMENT, that he forgot to take care of HIS RESPONSIBILITY?
Even if the woman was probably “too slow to learn”, or behind in knowledge, isn’t she his responsibility to make sure she is developed to his level of understanding?
Why leave her to wander idly in the garden while he “brings home the bacon”?

Adam succeeded in all business, he was the most successful creature in history, but his failure in family eventually brought to nought all his excellence.
He failed when he neglected his responsibility.
He failed when he neglected the place of the woman in the family –  by his side at all times.
The woman was taken out of the side of man. Thus she should be at his side all the time, for only then, is he complete.

Worse still, he blamed God for giving him the woman. He blamed God for helping him! Imagine the insult! He blamed God for his own personal failures!
Therefore my brother, she is your responsibility. To nuture, to care for, to bring her up to your level.
If you attend business cocktail parties and you are not proud of taking her along, then you are on your way to failure already.
Train her if necessary. If she needs an education, make it your priority. If she needs a job or a small-scale business to get to your level of enterprise, by all means provide.
Her job is not to raise children. Sorry if I shocked you by saying this.
Her job is to HELP YOU. I’ll say it again. She was created to help you.
The duty of raising children is BOTH OF YOU, not her alone.

The Fall of Man

The Fall of Man

So, stop blaming the female folk for the world’s problems. It is a defeatist mindset. Face your responsibilities, and these problems will be long forgotten.

Yours in Christ,
Kelechi Emenike


My physical aspirations versus God’s will

Thinking about this concept of vision, and trying to marry it with my spiritual assignment Mark 16:15.

I know, that without a clear vision of the future, my life would only be run in circles. But each time I sit to “plan my life”, there is that lingering question – What exactly is God’s plan for my life?
As children of God, we are many times being hindered from planning our futures because we “leave everything to God”. I have come to understand, that God wants only one thing, and that desire is clearly spelt out in the gospel according to Mark, chapter 16 verse 15: Go Ye.
This is our spiritual assignment. This is our spiritual vision.

This brings me to new knowledge – that I can make those plans I desire to make, without being hindered by the possibility that I am going contrary to the “will of God”, so long I am carrying out the “spiritual assignment”. Therefore I can become a doctor, lawyer, or a professor of whatever discipline I want (or even all of the above), so long I am carrying out this assignment He desires of me.

Then there arises another factor – the concept of direction. I believe also that the good Lord wants us to have the best that the world has to offer, and to have this we need to be strategically located at a particular position in life – the right place at the right time. Therefore, I may want to be the Senate President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria tomorrow, but the best that life has to offer me lies in the art of pottery.

How then do I reconcile, my desires to that of the Holy Father?

I probably would do whatever I want, achieve all I want to achieve on earth, not forgetting my SPIRITUAL ASSIGNMENT, make it to heaven, and even at His right hand, He would remind me, “Son, congratulations. But you really would have done better”. This means I would have been able to still fulfil my desires on earth, and make it to eternal glory.

The question is, is this possible?

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Emmanuel Emenike Shoots Down Ethiopian Airline to Brazil 2014


With Club football on pause mode as FIFA takes center stage as regards qualification for Brazil 2014, attention turned to national teams. Without an Arsenal encounter to view and with Enyimba grabbing all three points at home in the Glo NPFL, the Nigerian encounter away to Ethiopia was top on my schedule. reports that:

The Super Eagles went to Addis Ababa and conquered both the altitude and the Walya Antelopes in the first leg of their World Cup qualifier on Sunday. Nigeria conquered the high altitude of Ethiopia with a 2-1 victory as they signified a firm interest in making a fifth appearance in the World Cup in Brazil.

Emmanuel Emenike was the hero for the Super Eagles as he scored the equalizer and the winner in the 89th minute. Ethiopia had gone ahead in the 56th minute when Vincent Enyeama mis-judged a cross from Assefa and the referee…

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